A reflection on coffee, community, and choosing connection over expansion
Summary: There's a question that haunts every small business owner who finds unexpected success: Do we scale this, or stay truly community-based? For as much as I love tea, I love coffee just as much—and this dual passion taught me something profound about business. From my early days at Irving Farm Coffee Roasters in upstate New York to running Lowinsky's in Hamburg, I've learned that we put too much love, intention, and positive energy into this to scale it properly. This is why I choose to stay small, stay special, and why sometimes the best business decision is to stay human-sized.
The Question That Haunts Every Small Business
There's a question that haunts every small business owner who finds unexpected success: Do we scale this, or stay truly community-based? Does energy sell, or quality of product? Is coffee art or science?
It's a question I've been wrestling with lately, not because I don't know the answer, but because the answer goes against everything modern business tells us we should want.
For as much as I love tea—and anyone who knows Lowinsky's knows that matcha runs through our veins—I love coffee just as much. This dual passion isn't a contradiction; it's a philosophy about craft, care, and connection that transcends any single beverage.
From Irving Farm to Hamburg: A Coffee Journey
I remember finishing high school, still wishing that Dad would come back after leaving us, not preparing for any entrance exams and getting ridiculously low scores, not knowing what my next step would be. My Mom and I moved up north, to where our old country home was—a pretty broken home where no one had cared for it.
I applied for a job at Irving Farm Coffee Roasters.
I started learning about coffee, especially espresso and making espresso drinks with milk. Millerton, New York, is the smallest village located about two hours north of New York City. We call this real country; there were real country folks who lived here.
The morning ritual: You had the handymen, the roadworkers, the policemen and policewomen—they were all at the coffee house at about 6 in the morning. These weren't customers seeking Instagram-worthy latte art. They were a community.
I took so much pride in getting to know the community, the customers, essentially the people who bought enough coffee so that I could have this job.
The Currency of Connection
Ultimately, I knew that I wasn't just serving coffee, food and pastries, but a moment between me and them. It felt so special. It still does.
What I discovered in that small coffee house was profound: each interaction, however brief, was an exchange of human energy. The regular who'd lost his job and needed someone to acknowledge his existence. The mother juggling three kids who just needed her large coffee made exactly right, no questions asked. The elderly couple who came in every Sunday and sat in the same corner booth.
I learned that energy sells just as much as product quality. You can have the finest beans, the most precise extraction, the perfect microfoam—but without genuine human connection, you're just another caffeine dispensary.
The Unscalable Heart
Maybe for this reason, businesses like Lowinsky's aren't scalable. We put too much love, intention and positive energy into this.
You cannot scale emotion, passion and energy and then expand and scale.
I am all for people trying to make it big, go for their dreams and become the next Starbucks, but I am not that kind of guy. I could go for it but I do believe that life is too short.
The uncomfortable truth: The moment you try to systematize genuine human connection, something essential dies. The magic dissipates. What remains might be profitable, efficient, even successful by conventional metrics—but it won't be special.
I prefer having a mom and pops shop, a place where people can feel intention and while we also need to make a buck or two, we do it with love, humor, laughter and respect.
The Philosophy of Presence
Every time I hire someone for a job at Lowinsky's, I reiterate a few different points.
Core Principle #1: Recognition
First and foremost, everyone should feel seen, respected and recognized, from the moment they enter the shop until the moment they leave.
We do not need to remember someone's name per se, but giving them a glance of familiarity and being present is what makes an experience at Lowinsky's special and unique.
What This Looks Like in Practice
- That moment of eye contact when someone walks in
- The slight nod that says "I see you, you matter"
- Remembering how someone likes their drink, even if you don't know their name
- Being fully present during the interaction, not just going through motions
- Creating space for genuine moments, not just transactions
This is what makes Lowinsky's special, and it's precisely what cannot be replicated at scale.
The Art of Having Enough
I would say I am less of a businessman, but more of an entrepreneur, artist and host.
I would like to think that I have scalable ideas, but I am not into expansion, I am into having enough.
What "Enough" Means
- Enough to live well: Not extravagantly, but comfortably
- Enough to pay our team fairly: People who pour their hearts into this deserve security
- Enough to source quality: Good ingredients cost money, and that's okay
- Enough to maintain the space: A welcoming environment requires investment
- Enough to sleep peacefully: Without the weight of empire-building
I've come to terms with what I am: less businessman, more entrepreneur-artist-host. I might have scalable ideas rattling around in my head, but I'm not interested in empire-building.
Coffee as Art, Business as Philosophy
So, is coffee art or science? It's both, obviously—but at Lowinsky's, we lean toward art. Science gives us consistency, but art gives us soul. Science can be replicated perfectly; art carries the fingerprint of its creator.
Does energy sell, or does product quality? Again, both—but energy without quality is hollow, while quality without energy is sterile. We choose to excel at both, knowing that this choice limits our growth potential.
The radical choice: In a world obsessed with growth metrics and market penetration, we're radical in our contentment. We believe—no, we know—that you can feel the difference.
The Human-Sized Decision
Will we scale, or stay community-based? We're staying put, staying small, staying special.
Life is too short to build something you don't believe in. At Lowinsky's, whether we're pulling shots of espresso or whisking matcha, we're not just serving beverages. We're creating moments, fostering community, and proving daily that sometimes, the best business decision is to stay human-sized.
We do believe that you can feel the difference.
When you walk into Lowinsky's, you're not entering a carefully calibrated customer experience designed in a corporate boardroom. You're entering a space where every detail, every interaction, every cup of coffee or bowl of matcha carries the weight of genuine intention.
What Scaling Would Destroy
I've thought about it, of course. What would Lowinsky's look like with ten locations? Twenty? A franchise model?
The Inevitable Losses
- The personal touch: You can't train genuine care; it has to come from the heart
- The flexibility: Corporate systems don't allow for beautiful deviations
- The community connection: You can't be deeply rooted in twenty neighborhoods at once
- The soul: That indefinable something that makes a place special
- The joy: Managing an empire is different from nurturing a garden
Sure, we could make more money. We could reach more people. We could become a "success story" in the traditional business sense.
But at what cost?
The Courage to Stay Small
It takes a certain kind of courage to resist the siren call of expansion. Every business book, every investor, every well-meaning advisor tells you to grow, scale, maximize.
But there's another kind of success—one measured not in locations or revenue multiples, but in the depth of connection, the quality of daily experience, the integrity of staying true to your vision.
What Success Looks Like to Us
- A customer who comes in stressed and leaves centered
- A team member who feels valued and seen
- A perfect matcha that makes someone's entire day
- A conversation that becomes a friendship
- A moment of genuine human connection in an increasingly digital world
These things don't scale. They can't be systematized. They can't be franchised.
And that's exactly the point.
The Promise We Keep
Every day at Lowinsky's is a renewal of a simple promise: to be present, to care genuinely, to serve not just products but moments of meaning.
This promise requires us to stay small enough to keep it.
When a business grows beyond a certain point, promises become policies. Values become value propositions. People become metrics. We refuse to let that happen.
Our commitment: We will grow in depth, not breadth. We will become better, not bigger. We will measure success by the quality of connections, not the quantity of transactions.
The Beautiful Constraint
Choosing not to scale isn't a limitation—it's a liberation. It frees us to:
- Make decisions based on intuition, not data
- Change things that aren't working without corporate approval
- Know our customers as people, not demographics
- Take risks that wouldn't make sense at scale
- Maintain standards that would be "inefficient" in a larger operation
The constraint of staying small forces us to be more creative, more connected, more intentional. It's not the easy path, but it's our path.
The Final Cup
So here we are, in our one perfect location in Hamburg-Eppendorf, serving coffee and matcha with love, intention, and presence. We're not trying to take over the world. We're trying to make our small corner of it a little more human.
Because in the end, what scales isn't always what matters.
What matters is that feeling you get when you walk through our door—that sense of being welcomed into something real, something crafted with care, something that exists not to maximize shareholder value but to create genuine value in people's lives.
That's not scalable. It's not meant to be.
And that's perfect.
Visit us at Lowinsky's, Lehmweg 36 in Hamburg-Eppendorf, where every cup comes with intention, every interaction with presence, and where we're proudly, stubbornly, perfectly unscalable. Because sometimes the best business decision is to stay human-sized.